After cremation, the remains undergo a few more steps before they are returned to the family or disposed of according to the family's wishes. Here's a breakdown of the post-cremation process:
1. Cooling: Immediately after the cremation process, the remains are left to cool. This can take several hours.
2. Collection: Once cooled, the cremated remains, which consist of bone fragments, are collected from the cremation chamber. At this stage, any larger bone fragments may still be visible.
3. Processing: The collected fragments are then processed into a finer consistency, resembling a coarse, gray powder. This is often done using a machine that grinds the fragments down.
4. Metal Removal: During the cremation process, any metals (from dental work, surgical implants, casket parts, etc.) will not be destroyed by the heat. After processing, any remaining metals are separated, usually using magnets, and are generally recycled.
5. Transfer to Container: The final, processed remains are then transferred to a container. This could be a temporary container provided by the crematory or an urn that the family has chosen.
Once these steps are completed, the cremated remains (often referred to as "ashes") are ready for their final disposition based on the wishes of the deceased or their family. Common options include:
1. Burial: The urn can be buried in a cemetery plot or a specially designated urn garden.
2. Columbarium: A columbarium is a structure with niches (small spaces) where urns can be placed and memorialized.
3. Scattering: Some families choose to scatter the remains in a meaningful location, such as a favorite beach, mountain, or garden. Certain regulations might govern where ashes can be scattered.
4. Home Memorial: Families may choose to keep the urn at home as a memorial.
5. Special Memorials: Some choose to incorporate a portion of the ashes into jewelry, artwork, or other memorials.
6. Green or Natural Options: There are biodegradable urns designed to be buried, which break down over time. Some companies also offer services where ashes can be incorporated into a living reef or turned into a tree seed pod.
It's essential to be aware of any legal or environmental regulations related to the scattering or burial of ashes, especially in public places or natural environments. It's also a good idea for families to discuss their plans and ensure that they align with the wishes of the deceased, if known.
It brings my family comfort to know my brother, who loved to fish Vermont streams and rivers, is now in such a beautiful “gone fishing” urn. Even the funeral director commented on how very nice it was. Thank you!
I have an extensive art background, so I was beyond excited when I found the mosaic cremation urn, for my mom, who recently passed. I’d wanted something very different from what I’d seen/purchased in the past.
When I viewed it on the website, what originally attracted me was not only the mosaics, but the rainbow of colors that were displayed, including teals and purples.
Unfortunately, as is many times the case, what was shown on the website was very different in person. Instead what was received was a base of two colors, cranberry and forest green, sponged over silver with very little other reflective colors regardless of where I placed them.
Having done mosaic work myself, with glass, imperfections are expected, since the work is done by hand. The piece just didn’t have the impressive colors that were indicated on the site.
In addition, I must have been sent a return, because though there was decent packing, in the larger box that the smaller box was placed in, the box actually containing the urn itself, had NO packing to prevent movement; there was a torn white bag that had dark smudges on it, stuffed at the bottom, and there were several areas, on the urn, where the glass pieces had been cracked or fallen off.
Needless to say, I was pretty upset!
I looked on the site regarding returns and saw that a return MUST BE STARTED within 7 days of receipt, and so I immediately reached out with an email. The response was pretty quick, within a few hours, I believe, and because I was so disappointed with my experience, I was set on getting my full refund, because I couldn't imagine that a replacement would be any different. It was required that I send a picture with the logo from the bottom of the urn, in order to begin the return/replacement/refund, which I sent.
Though I indicated that I was leaning towards the refund, a replacement was sent out. This time, the replacement was properly packed, and the white bag that had previously been stuffed at the bottom of the box, (from the first shipment), was now new, clean and carefully placed around the blue velvet drawstring bag encasing the urn, AND the packaging prevented any movement of the urn during shipment.
When I removed the urn from the box and carefully examined it, I was more than pleased that NO glass pieces were cracked or missing.
I still wasn’t crazy about the base colors, but the glass placement reflected more of the myriad of colors I was looking for.
I now have ashes from BOTH my mom and stepdad, in the urn, on a lovely memorial shelf, in my home.
A “nod” and heartfelt thank you to Meagan S., in Customer Support, for her prompt attention and solution to the matter.
Gold came rusted and stained, and the top was completely rusted-It wouldn’t let me submit a picture but the pretty disappointing for the price. Still pretty and durable.
My husband died in a tragic accident Nov 7 2024. When me and the children decided on cremation, they described what his urn should look like. And when I came across this one it met all the check marks. Delivery was amazing. Our custom engraved plaque was just the right detail without being too much. It warmed my heart for the funeral home to give him back to me in this beautiful urn. I was able to bring my kids their dad home one last time and you guys helped me accomplish that. Forever grateful to have found this company during such a difficult time. Thank you💙
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